The Diagnosis ~
Up and down, around and around, out of control and going wayyy too fast! That's how some parents describe how they felt when swirling around in the medical maelstrom that follows a child's diagnosis of Cystic Fibrosis. *EXACTLY HOW I FEEL*
Some simple things that can make a BIG difference ~
* Positive support from Family & Friends
* Support from CF communities
* Focus on Faith
* Blog
* Read inspiring books
* Take time to do fun things
Understanding Guilt ~
* It is my fault that my child got sick
* I must make sure my child is happy all the time
* It is my job to make my other children healthy
* It is selfish or wrong to take time for myself
* The family is a mess and it's my fault
* I need to try harder
Avoiding Bumps in the Road ~
Parenting isn't for the faint-hearted! Raising throughout their developmental stages is tricky enough; parents of kids with CF have to face additional challenges along the way.
When we know where the bumps and potholes are, it becomes a lot easier to avoid them!
The Good News ~
Just like a roller coaster, the "newly diagnosed" ride eventually slows down and stops. Even in the toughest of circumstances, life has a way of becoming routine. You will find a new "normal." and you'll be able to look back and say, "As scary as that experience was, I survived!"
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Jadie, I can't stop thinking about you and your cute family this week. I truly believe that as parents, Heavenly Father only gives us what he knows we can handle. He must know you well enough to know that you are a great mom and a really tough chick. We love you guys. Please call me if you need anything!
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